There is far more to a woman than her hymen and defining her as regards its status condidering she may not have even been born with one or may have one that is so thin that no blood is produced the first time is stupid. It is important we all know the real facts. I never had that friend because I was always that friend. The most important thing is to take your time! Virginity is a social construct it means first time. Because of the ignorance with regard to the female body down through the ages women and girls have suffered terribly and have even been killed because of it. More content from YourTango:
That is an awfully broad brush you have in your hands. Recommended Questions. Perhaps you meant to say: So me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months and last night I officially lost my virginity to him. Therefore in urban cultures the myth has been circulated quite effectively than men who prefer younger ladies are perverts- to be sure biologically speaking the opposite is true.
First Time Sex: What You Need To Know Before You Lose Your Virginity
I love to appreciate good talents, which i find in you too,,!! You will still have menstrual cramps, though, so if you have abdominal pain every month but no period you should get checked. And possibly more primal reasons — such as to guarantee the paternity of any offspring pre-dna of course. Some girls may have a thicker, tougher hymen, and in extreme cases may need it surgically removed as penetration with a penis is nearly impossible. The hymen remains a highly debated and controversial part of the female body. My best fined bled enough to get her sheets dirty and scared me by saying it was extremely painful the entire time.
Your Sex Life Through Time. By XXXperiment in forum Misc. I just had sex for the first time last night and it was really painful. Inserting things into the vagina is one of the things that can contribute to the gradual wearing-away of the hymen. The majority of other methods only prevent pregnancy. Use a hair dryer on the cool setting to dry the sore area and avoid the scratchiness of a towel.